Abandon the worries… and Abide in the Word.

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Abandon the cares… because Christ will never abandon you.

"Do you think I look fat in this dress?"

When a woman asks you this, you're doomed. No matter what you say, it will be the wrong answer. She already knows she looks fat or she wouldn't be asking you the question in the first place. But if you fib and tell her that she looks skinny, she knows it's not the truth -- and she'll punish you not only for lying to her, but also for noticing that she's been packing on the pounds. She might even break into tears because, "You don't love me for who I am." Either way, you can't win.

So why do women indulge in these silly mind games?

Well, for one thing, they're women. And women think and react with their emotions -- at least more than men do, in general. But it's really about testing us. And tests are ultimately all about control of the relationship.

The typical guy is usually clueless about the mind games women play. But play them they will, so you'd better be aware of what's going on.

Let's take a look at three different stages -- Meeting, Dating and Relationship -- to see what kinds of games the typical female plays.
1- The Meeting Stage
Sexy clothes
She wears provocative clothing and then gets mad when you check her out ("My eyes are up here ...").
What's her mind game?: No logic here at all -- of course men are going to look and she knows it. And when they do, she castigates them for their normal and natural interest.

Shallow initial contact
She'll come on to you, flirt, even act sexually suggestive with absolutely no intention of going on a date or getting involved.
What's her mind game?: She wants to get a rise out of you to assure herself that she's still attractive to the men. Surprisingly, a lot of attached women play this game.

No phone call
She'll give out her number with no intention of dating you. Or she'll take your number and never call you.
What's her mind game?: This is another bid for power. She just wants to reassure herself that she can control men with her sexuality.

Hard to get
She turns you down for a date or doesn't return your call, even if she's interested in going out with you.
What's her mind game?: Sometimes this is simply a power play and sometimes what she wants is for you to chase her, to determine how desperate you are for sex. If you bite, then she knows she's totally in control of the relationship and you'll forever jump to the crack of her whip.

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How To Tell If She's Interested

>ARE YOU interested in learning how to tell
whether or not a woman is interested in you? Are
you fascinated with eye contact, body language,
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OK, I have a quick trick question for you.

That's right, I said a quick TRICK question.

How can you tell if a woman is interested in
you?

Answer quickly.

So what gives?

Why am I asking you a trick question?

Simple.

Because I'm trying to make you THINK.

I'm sure that, just like me, you've read a
hundred books and articles that say things like:

"If she tilts her head to one side and strokes her
neck, that's a sign of interest..."

"If she licks her lips in a longing fashion, that
means she's interested in you..."

"If she laughs a lot, makes positive eye contact,
and touches you often, then she likes you..."

DUH!

I remember when I first read all this stuff.

I thought to myself "Wow, cool! I must have
been missing these hints because I didn't know to
look for them. Now I'll know when a woman is
interested in me..."

Well, there was ONE SMALL problem...

The problem is that women display these MAJOR
INTEREST signals in about 1 of 100 interactions
with men...

And there was one BIG problem...

That problem was that none of the damn books I
read said a single thing about how to MAKE women
give you these signals.

In other words, what I realized is that average
guys like me who don't get "approached" by women
need to learn not only WHAT to look for, but, more
importantly, how to actually CREATE ATTRACTION in
women so they GAVE me these signals in the FIRST
PLACE.

So let me share with you some ideas on how to
MAKE women feel ATTRACTION for you... and then
I'll share some ideas on what to LOOK FOR to tell
if a woman is interested.

And my ideas will be a WEEEEEE BIT different
than the ones you read in your flirting books.

OK, so you're out at a bar with a few friends,
and it's time to meet some interesting women.

You look around, and none of the hot young
babes in there seem to be tilting their heads to
one side, looking you in the eye, and licking
their lips... so you decide to DO SOMETHING.

What do most guys do in this situation?

Either:

1) Nothing, because they're scared, or...

2) Something typical, like ask a girl to dance, or
if he can buy her a drink.

If you're guilty of doing these, raise your
hand.

Then take your raised hand, and slap yourself
silly. Not too hard. But silly.

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Here's a thought for you...

If you put 100 guys in a bar with one beautiful
woman sitting alone, and you say to all 100 of the
guys, "Hey guys, which one of you can walk over to
that woman and do something to make that woman
feel a SEXUAL ATTRACTION for you?"... I'd say that
if you're LUCKY, one of them will claim that he
can do it.

In other words, for most guys, the idea of
walking up to a girl they don't know and doing
something that will TRIGGER an attraction is
completely outside of their universe.

This is one of the reasons why guys do things
like asking girls to dance, buying them drinks,
etc.

Now, something you must understand when it
comes to women and ATTRACTION is that women don't
feel ATTRACTION for WUSSIES.

ATTRACTION isn't a CHOICE.

It isn't logical (at least, on the surface).

But once you start to "get it", everything
changes. Your entire perspective changes once you
"get it", and your results change instantly as
well.

So here's something for you to try:

MESS WITH WOMEN.

That's right "mess with" them.

Tease.

Bust on.

Be difficult.

Why?

Because it INSTANTLY communicates that:

1) You could care less what she thinks of you.

2) You're a fun person.

3) You're unpredictable.

4) You're a bit of a "wild card"

5) You GET IT.

Now, you might be shaking your head right now
and saying "That doesn't make any sense. Why would
a woman feel attracted to me if I mess with her
instead of being nice?".

That's a good question.

But for now, take the hand that you slapped
yourself with earlier, and slap yourself again.

Good.

I want you to STOP following your "be nice and
kiss ass" instincts when you first meet a woman,
and instead practice MESSING WITH HER.

Make fun of something.

Go to hand her something, then pull it away at
the last second.

Shake your head in despair and tell her that
she's screwing up her chances with you.

Say something Cocky & Funny, then turn around
and walk away before she can respond to your face.

Can ya feel me, dog?

Now the good stuff...


HOW TO TELL IF SHE'S INTERESTED

Well, this is what you were looking for, so
here it is...

I'm going to give you a stupid-proof formula
for knowing whether or not a woman is interested
in you.

Here it is:

1) You engage her.

2) She engages you back.

Yes, that's it. Please stop the applause long
enough that I can finish. You can clap later.

I know that this sounds a little "Duh-ish", but
stay with me here.

If I walk into a restaurant, and the hostess
asks me how many are in my party, and I answer
with, "Well, there are three of us. I guess there
will be FOUR if YOU join us..." and she laughs at
my joke, then IT'S ON!

If I'm standing at the bar, and the woman next
to me bumps into my arm, and I turn and say, "Hey,
watch it, OK? Keep some space here, I need at
least a foot of room..." in a serious tone of
voice... and she starts playing along by smiling
and moving away from me then back again playfully,
then IT'S ON!

If I'm talking to a woman that I met at the
magazine rack, and I ask her, "What's with that
huge purse of yours? You got a dog in there or
something?" and she starts laughing and making
excuses, then IT'S ON!

In a nutshell, what I'm trying to say is:

1) Stop looking around for signals from women that
they're "interested" in you.

2) Stop CARING whether or not a particular woman
is interested in you.

3) Instead, start TRIGGERING the interest, and
watching to see if women ENGAGE. If they do, then
assume that IT'S ON!

As long as you use how she's responding to what
YOU do as your gauge, then you'll have a MUCH
easier time spotting the "she wants me" clues...

...Because YOU ARE THE ONE CAUSING THEM.

And...

...and if you want literally HUNDREDS and
HUNDREDS of killer ideas for making women feel
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Stop beating your head against the wall, and
start taking advantage of the years I've spent
learning this stuff. You'll be SO glad you did.

I'll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.


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The Top 10 Things
Women Want From Men



The Top 10 things women want from men in a long-term relationship right here...

This page is for men who only have TWO MINUTES to read about what your significant other wants. If you only read one page of this website, make it THIS one.

Women want men to:


Give sympathy, not solutions.
If you could change just one thing, do this: When she talks to you about a problem she’s having, JUST LISTEN TO HER. DO NOT OFFER ADVICE! She just wants you to pay attention while she vents, and then she will FEEL BETTER! Just do it.


Cuddle more.
It’s no good if the only time you are affectionate is when you want sex. We need to hold hands, hug, kiss, etc. on a regular basis or we feel neglected.


Be romantic.
If you treat your wife or girlfriend like one of your buddies, she isn’t going to be very happy. She needs regular small gestures of love to remind her how lucky she is to be with you.


‘Make love,’ not just ‘have sex.’
A woman needs to have an emotional connection with you in order to have great sex. If it’s just wham bam and all you care about is getting off, she isn’t going to be very happy. For more advice about sex click here.


Be neater.
Wives and girlfriends HATE, I repeat, HATE having to pick up after a man. It’s just common courtesy to do things like put your dirty clothes in a hamper instead of leaving them on the floor for her to trip over, or wash some dishes, or put things away.



Be good with foreplay.
If you consider 5 minutes enough time for a good roll in the hay, you can be sure she is unsatisfied. Unless she’s one of those (few) lucky women who can have a vaginal orgasm, she needs more time, and she needs you to be emotionally engaged with her.


Be emotionally open.
A man who rarely or never shares his feelings is going to frustrate the woman he’s with. Not only is it healthier for you to open up and express a little emotion, sharing your feelings with her will make her feel closer to you, which will make her happy.


Be able to have a conversation.
If we can’t have a good conversation with you about things besides finances, kids, jobs, household concerns, etc. life is going to feel boring. Be willing to discuss things like movies, books, memories from childhood, your dreams, etc.


Have passion.
A man needs to feel passion for something in his life (besides the woman he loves!) or he will be dull, dull, dull. It could be his career, a hobby, or a volunteer pursuit, but life together is so much better if you are living up to your potential and making yourself happy by doing something you love.


Be equal partners.
It’s not enough to bring home a paycheck. Women need your emotional support, and they need you to be a co-parent, helping out every step of the way from changing diapers and midnight feeding (if you have kids) to equally dividing household chores. Say good-bye to your ideas of ‘womens’ work and be willing to help with everything.

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YOU THINK YOU KNOW WHAT THE OLD LADY IS THINKING?

I WAS WALKING THROUH THE GROCERY STORE THE OTHER DAY. IT WAS A SUNDAY. YOU SEE, IT WAS AN EARLY SUNDAY MORNING. I HAD THE "DREADED LIST". IT WAS THE LIST THAT EVERY MAN HATES. IT WAS ONE OF THOSE LISTS THAT YOU HAVE TO PICK UP CERTAIN NAME BRANDS AT THE GROCERY STORE, FOR INSTANCE "THE MINUTE MADE ORANGE JUICE WITH EXTRA C AND CALCIUM, WITH VITATMIN A AND 1 PART E. IT WAS THE LIST THAT YOU BUY ONE, GET ONE FREE. YOU HAVE TO SWIPE THE CARD THOUGH. DON'T FORGET TO SWIPE THE "CARD".

ALL US MEN HATE THIS LIST, CAUSE YOU HAVE TO SWIPE YOUR CARD OR YOU DON'T GET THE DISCOUNT. YOU PAY FULL PRICE THEN. AND THEN YOUR IN TROUBLE WITH THE OLD LADY, CAUSE YOU DIDN'T GET THE DISCOUNTS. THEN YOU'RE A DUMB-F---, CAUSE YOU F---ED UP AND YOU DIDN'T GET THE DISCOUNTS.

SO I'M SCRUFFY, IT'S SUNDAY MORNING. I DIDN'T SHAVE AND I'M STILL WEARING THE SWEATS AND T-SHIRT THAT I WORE TO BED THE NIGHT BEFORE. I HAVE THE CARD THOUGH, CLUTCHED I MY FIST...

OKAY, YOU KNOW HOW YOU WALK DOWN THE AISLES OF A GROCERY STORE SOMETIMES. YOU KNOW HOW YOU KEEP SEEING THE SAME PERSON, BECAUSE HE OR SHE IS WALKING IN THE SAME DIRECTION, BUT OPPOSITE ROWS IN EVERY AISLE. YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN, BECAUSE WE HAVE ALL BUMPED IN TO THIS PERSON MANY TIMES. YOU MAKE EYE CONTACT, BUT YOU DON'T ACKNOWLEDGE EACH OTHER. YOU KEEP WALKING BY EACH OTHER,EVERY AISLE...

SO IT HAPPENED SUNDAY. THIS VERY VERY PROPER OLD LADY WAS DOING THE "AISLE DANCE" WITH ME. SHE WAS DRESSED VERY CONSERVATIVE AND NICE. AS STATED, I WAS DRESSED AS A SCRUFF, BUT REMEMBER A PAYING CUSTOMER.

SO THERE I AM WITH MY "DREADED LIST". I HATE THAT "LIST". THEN THIS CONSERVATIVE OLD LADY KEEPS GIVING ME THE "YOU ARE A SCUM BAG LOOK". SHE IS JUST OUT OF CHURCH AND FEELING RATHER "SELF RIGHTIOUS". SO I SMILE AT HER, FIGURING THIS IS A WARM AND FRIENDLY ACT. IT WILL LIGHTEN UP HER ATTITUDE ABOUT ME.

BUT NO, SHE KEEPS ROLLING HER EYES AT ME. I EVEN HEAR A "NITH" OUT OF HER. THIS GOES ON AND ON EVERY AISLE. SO I'M STARTIN TO GET PISSED. SO FINALLY I DO IT. I PASS HER IN THE 12TH AISLE, AND WHISPER IN HER EAR, VERY SOFTLY, "NICE ASS".

SHE GIVES ME A LOOK LIKE SHE JUST SWALLOWED A FROG, AND RUNS OFF.

SO WE PASS IN THE NEXT AISLE, AND SHE'S GOT THIS BIG-ASS INVITING SMILE ON HER FACE, LIKE "WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN ALL MY LIFE".

I GIVE UP ON WOMEN...